无题

听着《礼物》，听着《亲人》，听见最真实的心声。

可惜，

听着轻快的歌曲，不能安抚安静过后的孤单。

选择逃避，却无法控制那一颗悲伤的心。

原来那是一个危险的游戏，当你御下围墙，

把真心放在他的手上，因缘会把你带来幸福，还是伤痛？

会痛，那是因为你付出过真心；

会痛，是因为舍不得曾经只属于你的那份关心；

会痛，那是因为当你依然想要无私的付出，

然而那人已不知踪影。

从来，人们只看见他们想看到的东西。

从来，真相是能历经时间的考验。

那一刻，你以为秘密会永藏心底。隐瞒，最后变成伤害。初心，是好是坏，只有藏在你心怀。

一切的发生，是如此的短暂。

今晚，知道一个朋友要回国了。啊，心中一阵不舍。

为什么会不舍呢？因为心不习惯这个改变。

我们都想追求美好，圆满，永恒的事物。然而世事无常，我们都懂，却未建立起坚定不移的见解。大脑知道，心却不知道。

突然想起一行禅师在“初恋”这本书里的一段话：

“如果你很痛苦，那不是因为事物无常，而是因为你错以为事物有恒。一朵花凋谢时，你不会太难过，因 为你知道花开易谢，原本无常。但是你却不能够接受你所热爱的人遭受无常，当她去世时，你会悲痛万分。如果你看透事物无常的本质，那么你现在就会尽最大努力 使她过得快乐。认识到无常，你会变得积极、慈悲和富有智慧。”

佛说，诸形无常，诸法无我，涅磐寂静。

今天我体会到，无论是爱情，还是亲情，因为都受无常的变迁，亦非我们真正的能依赖，能安顿身心的地方。

究竟皈依处，三宝最吉祥。

究竟皈依处，三宝最吉祥。

Oh my... I miss it!

Was checking my senior's photos. She went to jonker street in Melacca to hunt for food. And i see this:

Oh my..I can directly feel the secretion of HCL into my stomach when i see this. Miss the rice balls so much!!!

and then my friend went to a shop to eat durian cendol ais kacang, and i think the place is named sam suk gong. Never try that before and it looks really yummy! AH~~~ in Malaysia, it's so nice that we don't have to cook every day and yet we still afford to pay for different kind of delicious meals when we eat at outside. A huge bliss for being Malaysians!

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When is our second time going to Melacca by the way!?!?

给 ^_^

《给 》 歌手：黎升平

能懂得给别人最富有

若贪图给自己最贫穷

给自己容易 给别人很难

没有了播种 怎会有收成

给 是世上最美好的事

给 是人间和谐的开始

不为****

不为获得回报

不需要一点酬劳 （Woo~~)

给人一句好话 给人一个微笑

给人一点心意 给人一些美好

给 人无畏平坦和信心

给的功德不思议

给人一句好话 给人一个微笑

给人一点心意 给人一些美好

给 使你我有无尽因缘

给让人们好运能源

俗语说 “施比受有福”，现在许多人都会炫耀自己的拥有，却很少人会赞叹给的功德。这首轻快的歌提醒我们，能给的人心灵是非常富有快乐的！而且，最好的布施，是最简单的“一个微笑，一点心意，一些美好”，我们是超幸福的，因为我们都有能力给啊！多存善念，多作布施，多祝福别人，我们的内心也会一天比一天过得更安乐。

我相信佛曲有着潜移默化的功力，能够把简单的道理唱进我们的心里。这是很好听的一首歌，可是在youtube找不到，所以就学习把它变成video upload 上来。歌词上网也找不到，有些部分不好意思真的听不清楚~ 如果你懂其中正确的歌词记得告诉我哦！嘿嘿！第一次做video，作品很粗糙。。哈哈！但是真的是很想和大家分享这首歌，希望大家听得很happy！照片是其次，音乐才是重点喔。。！

A silent night

It has been such a long time, since the last time I have such a silent night! Tomorrow is finally a weekend not filled with any particular events (the one I remembered seems to be centuries ago) , I just feel so so relaxed and relieved today. No stress on homework, no rush on doing things. A homely feel night. ARRRR~~~ it is so enjoyable. It is a carefree and silent night ( although dudu was still 24 hour on the phone with me~)

Recalling the past few weeks, I have had gone through the busiest time i had since I landed on UK. Two weeks ago, we went to Plymouth; last week, I had an unforgettable weekend staying with a British family. It was really exciting!!! Nonetheless, I was busy, and sometimes I lost my direction. I was somehow lamenting why am I making myself so busy for, since I actually have the freedom to choose an easier life to live. But as I looked back my initial aim of having so much of these activities, I knew that I won't regret, years later, that I have spent some time on doing these. Most importantly, I was actually enjoying myself so much in the progress of learning!!! Practising ballroom dance on Tuedays, French on Wednesdays, cello on fridays, and added the obliged responsibility of practising BAMSA dance on Mondays and Thursdays fill up all my nights during week days as I am usually a bit exhausted after coming back from the classes. Telling the truth: I am actually seriously slacking on my studies! That really gets me haywire! It's hard to get a really silent night to get on my studies and at this time time management is really important. I know I have to live my life with much consciousness so that I am not a mere blind who lives a busy life. There is a quote in Buddhism said, when you're totally concentrate on what you're doing, there's nothing than you cant do. Jiayou!!!


These are not important right now. Just want to spend the rest of the night in a very enjoyable way, just as when I'm at home. Listen to music, a little revision perhaps, and the book Way to Buddhahood should accompany me to bed. Tomorrow, I plan to have a refreshing kick start with a morning meditation ( long abandoned..!) . Let's call it an end with a picture I love so much:

That's my friend. We were in a huge piece of farmland, just behind the house of a British host family. Running on a huge piece of grassland was once my childhood dream.

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Good night, have a good night. :)

Building a happy relationship

I was on facebook just now and that's what I have read from a friend's note. "It was about an article," she writes, "written by T. Selva, The Star’s Sunday Metro Editor. Titled “To love and to cherish”, he talked about good relationships and how to maintain them. At first glance, I thought “What the heck, anyone can write something like that”. But as I read on, I realised how much I could relate to what he wrote."

Tips to build a happy relationship :

• Be willing to change.
• Be honest to your spouse / partner.
• Avoid competition between the two of you.
• Both must complement each other.
• Avoid being possessive and selfish.
• Be kind, gentle, patient and loving.
• Keep romance alive in your relationship / marriage.
• Say sorry if you have made a mistake.
• Be supportive in whatever he or she does.
• Have integrity and this will gain honor.
• Be a good listener, pay attention, and be open.
• Give surprises as it adds tonic to the romance.
• Cracking jokes helps to build a cheerful relationship.
• Never bring past problems and unpleasant incidents.
• Develop compassion for your partner and yourself.
• Know the likes and dislikes to shape the relationship.
• Exercise sweetness of speech and never use harsh words.
• Treat your spouse / partner the way you would like to be treated.
• Leave little notes for him or her when you miss each other.
• Express appreciation by saying thank you even for everyday things.
• Practice forgiveness as sometimes mistakes are made unintentionally.

A good list of small actions to be done with great love. As I read further, I thought, this list shouldn't be meant only for the couples! It is more to a guideline that teaches us how to live harmoniously with others and establish happy relationships with people around us. Be them our friends, family members, or just the strangers that come into our life.

• Be willing to change.
• Be honest to your friends and family members.
• Avoid competition between you and your friends.
• Avoid being possessive and selfish.
• Be kind, gentle, patient and loving to them.
• Say sorry if you have made a mistake.

And the list goes on. If you feel lonely and lament for too few friends to be by your side, think of this. To build a happy relationship, it always start from giving. Giving truthfully to the others, but not asking for return in the first place.


Somehow, there is this one last sentence which is dedicated only for the loved ones:

“A good relationship blossoms when two people decide to share instead of trying to change each other. ”

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太好看了！

朋友们！太太太夸张了，你知道我昨天晚上做了什么吗？？不是偷鸡不是啃书，而是煲戏煲到早上五点钟！！！

OMG，我想我是疯了，本小姐真的是对超搞笑的爱情喜剧没有抵抗力！！尤其这部片子的故事情节都还创新合理，不是那种看到都要睡着的老调子（就是那种导演故意设计来催情的假浪漫）。

故事中最引人入胜的地方，莫过于两人之间单单纯纯的感情，一开始不粘腻也不过头，不管是心中开始对对方产生了情愫，他们依然做回原本的自己，像平常般处事吃饭生活，不会被似有似无的感觉冲昏了头。

直到后来，男主角发现自己真正的喜欢上了傻傻的她，他不自觉地做出许多小小的心思，只要逗得她开心，他就可以觉得很满足。这最令人感动的地方，不在于他对她有多好，而是他那真正可以完全不求回报的付出的精神，不是我们常看到的，喜欢你，就想讨你欢喜，追求你，好占据你在我身边。也许这就是许多人所期盼神圣的真正的爱情吧。其实喜欢能够有那么大的魔力，能够让人觉得如此幸福，是因为在喜欢的过程中我们渐渐学会了缩小自己，为对方着想，回到生活中，如果我们都能以喜欢人这种无我的心态，处处为人着想，那么处处都是我们的朋友，我们也会像她一样，活得很快乐很有意思。女主角的快乐，源自于她的善良，也因为她的善良，感动了身边的人，即使她遇到许多的挫折，但是最后她有不获得幸福的理由吗？^_^

这部戏真的超好看的！！言承旭真的有演技上的几大突破！！！没想到顶天立地的我竟然爱上帅气的他了！！ >.< 哈哈，再让我疯多几天，相信假以时日我的“剧情烧”会减退的！我是Jerry 的fans 了！haha~~

I-am-TIDY!

Muahahah...I am not blowing my own trumpet! This is the most solid proof:

hehehehehe. Now I know that my cooker can "officially" stay in my room because I forgot to hide it during the room audit day. But everything turns out to be fine! hehehe. My room is in good order! sth to be proud of~ =P