今天，和一位师兄谈天，谈了许久。
每每和他说话，都会有心灵上的启发，也增长了我的信心。
其实啊，人生能有多少个如此的朋友呢？
说的不是无义的话，而是用心去和你交流的朋友。

今天，有一位朋友离开我们家了，因为她要回家咯。
有一些朋友，你感觉到她就是很熟悉，虽然你和她只是认识了三秒钟。
有点夸张啦。哈哈。可那也让我想起了，另一个她，我在认识她的第一晚，就把几乎所有的故事都跟她说了！听起来真的很不可思议！
但是，缘分是真的很奇妙的。

不论是缘深缘浅，都离不开悲欢离合。
也明白，那种不舍得的心情，是不好受的。但是我们生活在这个世界，却不得不一次次地经历这一种难受的感觉。直到我们真的把离合看得彻底的那一天。
师父说的那句话，是如此的深刻。她脸带微笑说：

“今天，大家相聚在一起，嘻嘻哈哈的，真的很欢喜。明天，大家又随着各自的因缘去咯。”

每个人都有自己的道路，各自的因缘要走。可是在此时此刻，我们竟然能够遇见彼此，真的实属难得。趁大家还有缘时，多做些什么吧，别等到大家随各自因缘而去时，空留遗憾。

常常弄丢发夹，便会从这里再取出新的来用。今天我望着它许久，心想：难道我要等到最后一支发夹才学会不弄丢吗？就好像我们的福报，我们不懂自己的存库有多少的资粮。倘若不懂得珍惜，只会取来用，比如，随意浪费食物，浪费水电，任意购买衣物，花钱等，平日却没有好好修福，福报很快会被用完的。

以前持戒清静的僧人，都把自己的日常用品，物尽其用。一个面巾，多么地破烂不堪，只要能够抹脸，就不丢。掉在地上的米饭，只要还能吃来填饱肚子，依然拾起来吃。别人都不明白他们为什么这么清苦，他们只微笑说够用就好。

就好像，如果我一直都好好保管那一支发夹，我就不必常常从这里取出新的。它们就没有那么快被用完，即使我没有钱再买新的。而且我有多的可以借给别人用。^^ 如果没有机会修福报，那么更要懂得惜福。怎么去惜福？用一颗感恩和欢喜的心去接受身边的事物。

有时候，惜福会比享福更有福。

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Wow, today is the 1.1.11 oo!!! But today is not a school term, so I cannot write it on my notes~~
Today is a Saturday, today is the 365th day of 2011! ( Like to make it a whole year countdown! )
Weeeeee..sorry for the post-new-year excitation!
The firework and beautiful lantern were still in my mind. And the broad blue sky that brings up all the most glittering stuffs.
As we renew our calendar, don't forget to renew our heart and way of thinking~ A new year is always a good kickstart to all the new things! It's not always too late to find the courage to become someone better than who you are, if you figure out there's sth you wanna change. :)

Have been asking people around their new year resolutions. While I myself haven't been really have one. Okay..let me think..here it goes!

Be motivated and patient to eradicate my bad habits - Being late, being messy, being unorganised...>< ><
Be a best friend of myself, less criticising and more appreciation for who i am and how i behave..Continue the journey of exploring my own self and the truth of the world.
Be a really good friend to all my good friends, because they deserve the love and understanding in return of what they have given so much to me...
Be happier, truly from the heart. Not that kind of happiness that comes from lust and desire, but the joy of having less hatred and being a better person.
Learn to give wholeheartedly and share with the others. I'm still on my way in doing this.
Stop being antisocial. hahaha..that doesn't mean that I gonna be very socialising all around. I just hope that I can know some very true hearted friends during my university years, and I should open my heart to the others. I have some very good role model to learn from. hehe.
Always have a time of a cup of milo, every day, no matter how crazy the workload is.
Follow his teachings, always. Avoid all evils, do all that are good, purify one's mind. 

Okay, that's all I can think now. Ciao~

From Venus

I am back.
Have lots of things to write about but for now, I'd just say what I did today.
Finally, after the whole summer and 2nd year first term has passed, I bought:　

Tortellini!

Quiche!

These are my fav lunch during last term!

Before the trip to Spain and london Christmas,
I never knew that people will wake up that early and queue up in front of Selfridges during boxing day. And  As what i witnessed, 95% of them are Asians.
I never knew a scarf of Tommy hilfiger will cost 35pounds, which is considered quite cheap because it is a half price.
I kind of forgot what Yamame sells.
I dont quite know Aldo actually sell girls' shoes.
And I never know La Senza starts selling guys' stuffs too.


Oh dear. I'm not only not a lady. I am an alien from Venus. Hello the Earth. :)

Touching.

This is so touching. I felt so humble and small in front of this great hero. Every day we spend hours thinking about ourselves and emotionally suffer from grief, anger and worry due to lots of things that trigger us. That's why we were never really happy regardless how high we are, how much things we possess and how many pleasures we enjoy.

And this guy, he rather spend his time sharing the food he has to people, days and nights, not hoping for any fame or rewards.  And he took care of their physical and mental state too. A great Bodhisattva he is! A person's power might be small, but he never underestimate himself. He made full use of his life.

So, let us learn from this great man,

Think less about what we want and what we desire. 

Care more about what they need and how they feel.

Fill our heart with love radiating from within,

Discard any ill will and enmity to the others.

Let us not harm anyone in whatever we do.
And try to help whenever we can.

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"Rain drops from the blue sky

like the tears that poor cry,

Let us show them all that we care

Show our loving kindness

So their suffers will soon be gone

And livelihood be joyful again.

We care~ so begin share with others

Deep in your heart

True from your heart to care.

We share~ all the joy with loving care

So hold out hands tight

and start to recite the will of Buddha

Sabbe Satta Sukhi Hontu

May all beings in this world happy too

Never gonna let go 

The message Buddha told you

Stay in us ever forever.." :)

吓死我了！

我常常很大头虾，东西整天不知放去哪了。近来，我终于得到我应有的教训了。。。T.T

首先是上个礼拜，我弄丢了我的bus pass和Library card，而且是等到那个人email 我我才知道哦！这是第二次，第一次时我知道我自己在城市里弄丢了，紧张得半死，到处去找，结果幸好有good samaritan检了我的东西，email并还了给我。所以这次我没那么紧张，反正也有人拾到了，可是。。。原来他只见到我的图书馆卡，我的bus pass却不翼而飞了~~ 那两张卡是放在一起的，决不可能掉了出来。我推测是先有人看见了，把library card 拿出来，然后拿走了buspass T。T 可是又能怎么办呢？毕竟都是自己的疏忽~~

不过这还好。因为学期已到了尾声，我还可以买10journey来搭巴士。今天更糟，发现自己的钥匙不见了！！！ 其实昨天就已发现了，回家时是室友开门，可是因为我前天晚上回家时记得是自己掏钥匙开门进去，所以满肯定自己一定是习惯性地把钥匙放在房间的桌子上。今天要出门时，才记得要找，可是，不在桌子啊！也不在书桌啊！omg~~ 东找西找，再返回laundry basket 里前天穿的衣服！！ 抽屉！！也可能留在客厅！厨房！（因为回来时可能会去厨房偷吃）都没有！！ 我近乎绝望，开始想我最近是不是走霉运（难怪人们bek cek 到一种地步会这么想），是不是印堂发黑。。可是又想想自己最近都没有做什么坏事，都try to 行三好，想起佛法说“人为善，福虽未至，祸已远离;人为恶,祸虽未至,福已远离”，就安慰一下自己。找了许久，近乎绝望了，漫无目的地寻找的时后就在我的labcoat的袋子里面听到响亮地钥匙声！真的是柳暗花明又一村啊！


我只知道把东西放去安全的地方，却常常毫无意识地把东西放在一个地方。真的是让我心跳一百的好大的教训啊！从此之后，我真的要下定决心，不要那么粗心大意了，每次做什么，哪怕只是放个钥匙，真的都要sati sati sati 啊！

我那时候一定是这个样子的一百倍！

Yeepie! ^^

Finished Dispensing practical. Finished patient counselling. It's not that bad and not that stressful actually. But, you know, just tend to get a little bit nervous for the first time. hehe..

and finished Chuck Season one! This is actually a quite funny and thrilling series!

Chuck is sooo nice and kind-hearted, no wonder Sarah falls for him eventually. Mr. Awesome is so awesome, Ellie is so charming, Casey is so cool but kind in his heart also! Thx Andrew for introducing this to us!

Kind of watching The Secret Garden also, until epi 2. Due to the STRONG encouragement of Dudu!!! Dunno why she found it soo funny, it's more or less like any other korean drama actually. In which, you know, the plot isnt really logical, exagerratingly intimate interactions and intense feelings at the first sight..( hehehe) Sorry Yunyi, yr Tamani Island has to wait for a while, I did watch the first 30mins of the first epi really!

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Weather: Sometimes we have a mix of summer and winter: We have really strong sunlight and at the same time ice spikes on trees and grasses. And not forget to mention the freezing temperature. hehe.

One week more and we'll be off to Spain!!! Hopefully everything will be alright and i hope there is no strike going on in the Spain airport..kekeke..Bye~

Pressie

Christmas pressie from University of Bath.

Self-made aqueous cream BP.

kekeke.

Tmr will  be a good good day! ^^